Our Mum died, suddenly but not unexpectedly, two months ago. Much of the two months has been really crappy. Last night my sister and myself went to Mum's place with our younger kids and my wife to just get a feel for the place and where we go from here.
My brother sister and myself have had our trips out there but it's time to start clearing, and we wanted to introduce our extended family easily.
An upside is that Mia wanted to take a bedspread, and today we have a little reverberation of Mum, which is nice.