"I believe you offer loyalty to everyone, which is not as big a strain as it sounds, because very few people pick it up."
And in my own words:
"I love you, but if you're making plans that don't include me, please don't be hurt or surprised if I happen to be making plans that don't include you"
And I only have a few instances in my life that my loyalty has been reciprocated.
And that's fine. But I love it when my faith in humanity is rewarded.