Friday, January 26, 2018
If someone is not interested in you then that's fine
All of my life I have had to deal with businesses, people, friendship groups, and sports teams being less interested in me than I have been in them. By the age of 50 I've come to realise that there is a simple solution to it. Forget them and get on with your own shit. In many cases if you're doing things that were your original reason for having those friends then you probably grow past them. Many a time have I just gone off to do my own shit and then the people who weren't interested in me are all of a sudden surprisingly interested in what it is ongoing and want me around them. If I was petty then that would be the time for me to revel in the fact that now I'm the Cool Kid, but mostly I just keep going on about my things. Because those people don't interest me anymore. I say that with all humility.